SatyaMom (original poster member #83919) posted at 1:54 PM on Wednesday, December 17th, 2025
I finally insisted on a polygraph and after our 3rd DDay ….he passed. So I now know the truth. Does it change anything- not really except I feel calmer. I fought hard, was very empathetic and forgiving looking for answers but this last DDay broke me. When I look at him he is a shell of the man I loved for 26 yrs. We are separated . You’d think he’d fight for us, maybe he thinks that’s what he’s doing but all I see is a weak broken man :( I realize how much I held the family together and now am letting it crumble. Polygraph- I resisted for a long time thinking it would just be too much shame for him, turns out it probably was ….but I have what I needed
BearlyBreathing ( member #55075) posted at 4:53 PM on Wednesday, December 17th, 2025
Then there is your closure, or as good of closure as one can get.
Try to keep moving forward. This is so hard, but even tiny steps forward are still forward.
Glad you got the answer you needed. (((Hugs)))
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
