Sixteen years of marriage. Thought I found my soul mate. Now he is on Tinder with 24-year-old girls (he will be 60 next year).

Just found out last night about his dinner date from Tinder

Married to a pediatrician for 16 years. No children because he wouldn’t go to fertility clinic that’s close to my office and only willing to go to the one next to his office. Knowing how many times the wife needs to go for appointments I gave up, because otherwise it means I have to quit my job. We both work in the healthcare industry and help each other out with our career. I could feel his heart wondering away this year. A woman’s sixth sense won’t lie. It’s my 50th birthday this year. No gifts no surprise trips nothing. He didn’t even bother to checkout the Christmas gift I bought for him.

Yesterday he said he has a workshop in the evening which gives him CME points. I checked his location later and found him at capital grill. I used to work a block from capital grill and go there for lunch all the time and never heard them hosting workshops. And CME workshops are announced on website publicly months in advance but I couldn’t find any for yesterday. So I called the restaurant asking them if there is a Private event and of course the answer is no. Around 10pm he sent a message to me saying he is on his way home. I saw his message which he booked the dinner reservation and asked the girl out and said he was nervous because he hasn’t been on the market for 16 years now. I sent a blunt message: how was your date? I didn’t sleep last night at all and felt like a zombie all day today. He already got a lawyer and I need to find one quickly. The only comfort I have is that I do not have any children with this guy who may end up resemble him.

6 comments posted: Friday, December 19th, 2025